Posts Tagged: sex

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Just got totally derailed by looking up American sexual behavior prevalences after telling someone (jokingly) that “all the cool kids are doing it”.

And what disappoints me is not the numbers, but rather, the totally unimaginative range of questions.  Have you had same-sex experiences?  Masturbated? PIV sex? Anal? Oral?  And that’s pretty much it. 

What’s even more annoying is that they ask male-identified people if they’ve ever been the receptive partner during anal sex, but they only ask it in the context of other men.  Like, 30% of the American population could be really into pegging, but we’d have no idea from a research perspective because apparently everyone who puts these questionnaires together is super-conservative about their behavioral questions.  Yawn.

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rachelelm:

Mentioned this on Twitter a coupla times recently but my absolute favorite thing in sex art is the hands that’s where all the punch is u_u~

One of my favorite things about sex in general is what the hands are doing.

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"If your partner is consenting, you will see them meeting you halfway on stuff, responding to your touch, touching you back, making approving noises, positioning their body helpfully, making occasional eye contact, smiling, giggling, kissing you, smelling your skin.

If your partner pulls away, flinches, draws back, goes still, goes limp, freezes, is silent, looks unhappy, starts holding their breath, goes from meeting you halfway to merely allowing your touch: stop and check in with words. Maybe they’re ticklish? Maybe they want to stop."

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Let’s talk about consent in practice. | Disrupting Dinner Parties (via veganthology)

This is a really really good article full of many wonderful metaphors and I want to quote the whole thing but instead I will restrict myself to:

Good sex is like running together while holding hands. Both people running. You have to be paying attention to your partner at all times, because if you let go, you’re no longer running together. You can let go or they can let go at any time. You can’t get started or change speed or direction without buy-in from your partner. Consent is keeping a hold of your partner’s hand, agreeing to go with them, agreeing to not leave them behind.

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I have never, ever regretted my decision to study sex and gender.

Until I needed to store a box of books on BDSM at my dad’s house.

This is the note that’s going on top of the books, under the packing tape.

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cuntakinte:

do you ever see someone and think oh my god i would like to be responsible for your next orgasm

This sums up that feeling of instant attraction perfectly.

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ilovecharts:

Virginity by Major

-appliedmathemagics

I’m going to need to see your data sets and collection methods, thanks.

(Still giggled.  I think chemists and mathematicians are hella sexy, though, because they understand things I do not.  No physicists, I note, but that’s probably because the mere existence of Brian Cox would skew the entire distribution.)

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lemuffinmistress:

ruvy:

I think that people forget that condoms protect you from more than just pregnancy.

And there is no morning after pill for HIV.

ACTUALLY THERE IS.

It’s called post exposure prophylaxis.

http://www.who.int/hiv/topics/prophylaxis/en/

If you’ve had unprotected sex and are afraid of possibly being at risk for HIV, please go to the emergency room and ask about POST EXPOSURE PROPHYLAXIS.


Works for up to 48 - 72 hours after exposure to HIV.

Whoa!  I had absolutely no idea that existed.  Life-saving info, people.

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I just want to stomp on them in high heels.  Or hit them with riding crops.

And I mean that in a very good way.

Seriously though, nothing appeals to me more than temporarily taking apart super-intelligent people’s intellects.   Maybe it’s ‘cause I know how good it feels to me personally to get a break from all the brain-activity sometimes?

The only downside is, I end up constructing elaborate daydreams that involve more leather items than I could possibly ever afford.

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witchtanic:

So down with this idea. HAHA.

This is how I will be approaching all of my assignations from now on.

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sexsation101:

Time to take off.

I do not sacrifice enough clothing to the gods of sex.  Not anywhere near enough.  This situation must be rectified immediately, universe.  Thanking you in advance.

sexsation101:

Time to take off.

I do not sacrifice enough clothing to the gods of sex.  Not anywhere near enough.  This situation must be rectified immediately, universe.  Thanking you in advance.

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